Madeline and I took the afternoon on Sunday to get ready for her (and Gabe's) party. I gave her complete autonomy, letting her set up everything exactly the way she wanted to. As we were working together, I asked her what she was most excited about.
Her exact words:
"Even more than the presents, I am most looking forward to everyone singing Happy Birthday to me. I love that part. Everyone singing. Its such a happy time!"
I was so touched by what she said and it was so completely Madeline to say it.
I will be honest and say I didn't think too much of it later (lots of activity with a huge family and 2 birthday celebrations!) until I downloaded the pictures and video later that night. When I watched the video of the Happy Birthday song, I burst into tears. She was so concerned about Gabe (he is seemingly reluctant about the whole thing) that she didn't even get to enjoy her part.
(scroll down & pause music before viewing)
I might have woken up at 2 am and started bawling again. Ok, I did. Poor Ron, he never knew what hit him! Emotional much? (Actually, yes)
Thankfully, I have an opportunity to "re-do" it again at her party tonight. She is having a couple girlfriends over for little celebration. Thank you God for second chances.
